When it comes to starting something new, there will always be people who just don’t agree with what you are doing. Some people will immediately imagine the worst case scenario and hit you with it like its a REAL danger. It’s not. It’s some bull shit inside of their head, and they are trying to put it in your head. Do what you have to in order to not get psyched out.
The process is always initiation, separation, and return.
Initiation: You decide or life decides.
You have a desire inside of you that you decide to follow, or something in your life makes goes so WRONG that you HAVE to make a change.
Separation: From your life, from your social circle, and from your comfort zone.
You are walking away from all that you are familiar with. You may have to leave friends, family, and lovers behind. Especially when these people become negative and try to pull you back to ‘normal’.
While you are making space, you are also obligated to do things and meet people that are all new to you. You may be lost and scared. You will definitely have to work and learn while missing the comforts that you are familiar with.
After a while, the skill improves along with your confidence. You hit milestones. You get to enjoy a few victory laps.
Return: You come back to the old tribe. (Or a new one…) You live in a new comfort zone.
You are now in a new place. You get to enjoy the spoils of your victory and the feeling of a new and stronger identity. Your social circle is different. Different people. Maybe the same people who tried to pull you back, with different attitudes. You have a new authoritative energy about you.
Things are good.
That is, until it’s time for a new initiation.
What is the crisis or desire calling you to adventure in your life?
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